Saturday, May 10, 2008
Books I Like

Pat Gaudette

While the majority of books that are sent to me to review deal with relationship issues, I also enjoy fiction and non-fiction books on a wide range of topics.

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A Man Worth Waiting For

A Man Worth Waiting ForA Man Worth Waiting For: How to Avoid a Bozo by Jackie Kendall is a dating book based on the biblical account of Ruth that teaches how to look for a Boaz not a Bozo. Kendall uses real-life stories to explain how to avoid dating mistakes and includes questions at the end of chapters that would make for good group discussions.

BOOK EXCERPT - Chapter 1 The Original MWWF: Boaz

Before Tristan and Isolde, before Romeo and Juliet, and even before Mr. Darcy and Miss Elizabeth of Pride and Prejudice, there were Boaz and Ruth. Their love story, dating from approximately 1000 BC, is still powerfully relevant in the twenty-first century.

Boaz, the leading man in the Hebrew book of Ruth, enters this short love story in chapter 2. This book is the story of a young widow named Ruth, whose heart had been broken by her husband’s death yet healed by faith in the God of Israel. Having touched God’s heart, she also touched the heart of one of God’s champion followers­–Boaz. The intersection of their lives becomes not only the framework of an earthly love story but also the foreshadowing of the greatest love story, God’s love for the world through Jesus­–Himself a descendant of the union of Boaz and Ruth. Read more… >>

Where Did I Leave My Glasses?

Where Did I Leave My GlassesWhere Did I Leave My Glasses?: The What, When, and Why of Normal Memory Loss by Martha Weinman Lear is a book that could almost be funny if it only happened to someone else. Lear’s research turns up some answers that make memory loss even less funny. She questions of the experts that many of us might be reluctant to ask, fearing the answers. Are there characteristics or traits that make memory loss a sure thing or bring it on earlier than “expected”? And when does memory loss “normally” kick in?  Will we all experience memory loss or are there factors that bring it on and/or factors that can delay it? Is age, or education, or family history a factor? The answers may surprise and perhaps shock you.

BOOK EXCERPT - Chapter One: Say Hello to Whatsisname

Here am I, chasing some elusive name up and down the windowless corridors of my mind—Yoo-hoo, name, wait for me!—and the merry little bugger keeps outrunning me, pausing every now and again just to give me the business, make me think I can grab it, and my annoyance turns to frustration, then to indignation, then to impotent laughter—I? practitioner of words, fumbling around in the dark for a Tom, a Dick, a Harry? How absurd.

I begin the usual lament: “I can’t remember his name, it’s right here on the tip of my tongue, this is driving me crazy, you know, way back when Whatsisname was president, the Contract with America guy, what the hell was his name?” Read more… >>

Looks

Looks - Why They Matter More Than You Ever ImaginedLooks: Why They Matter More Than You Ever Imagined is written by Gordon L. Patzer, Ph.D., founding director of the Appearance Research Institute and a tenured professor at Roosevelt University in Chicago. Dr. Patzer has investigated “lookism” and the physical attractiveness phenomenon for more than thirty years. I was fascinated by his research and appalled by many of the stories including one about a woman chosen to be on, and then rejected by, the Extreme Makeover reality show.

From the publisher:

It’s true that beauty pays. Better grades, success in romance, higher salaries -these are just a few of the well-documented advantages bestowed upon the good looking at the expense of everyone else. But the beauty fixation gets even uglier than that. A constant flood of images celebrating the thin and glamorous has triggered deadly eating disorders, dangerous cosmetic surgeries, and unhealthy obsessions that are affecting women and men of all ages-even young children.

Dr. Gordon L. Patzer has spent more than thirty years studying this phenomenon. Here he uses original research to provide a unique examination of physical attractiveness and how it has changed the lives of both men and women.Looks is the first book to explore how attractiveness affects every aspect of our lives-from whom we choose to befriend and hire to the candidates we choose to elect and whom we presume to be innocent or guilty in a court of law. Unflinching and revealing, Looks uncovers the sometimes ugly truth about beauty and its profound effects on all of us.

History Lesson For Girls: A Novel

History Lesson for GirlsHistory Lesson For Girls: A Novel by Aurelie Sheehan, is the story of two teen girls growing up in the 1970s. The teen years are difficult enough but add in dysfunctional family issues and sometimes terrible tragedy is the result.

From the back cover: In 1975, Alison Glass, age thirteen, moves to Connecticut with her bohemian parents and her horse, Jazz. Shy, observant, and in a back brace for scoliosis, Alison finds strength in an unlikely friendship with Kate Hamilton, the charismatic but troubled daughter of an egomaniacal New Age guru and his substance-loving wife. As the sincere but misguided “Women of History” plan the town’s bicentennial (complete with red, white, and blue Porta-Potties), the girls escape into the world of their horses, seeking refuge from the chaos in their lives.

I enjoyed this book even if it left me feeling more sadness for the characters than I would have liked.

The Girl’s Guide to Absolutely Everything

The Girl's Guide to Absolutely EverythingThe Girl’s Guide to Absolutely Everything by Melissa Kirsch is a hefty book, 478 pages in size, written for women in their 20s and 30s. It could certainly be a third less pages but then the nicely done typography and graphics would have to go and that would pretty much destroy the easy reading of this book.

The Girl’s Guide to Absolutely Everything is crammed with useful information on every topic a woman would need and/or want to know from health to work to fashion to manners to friends to love and more. Mixed in with the easy to read information and tips are websites, recommended books, authorities on various topics. Read more… »

Endings

Endings A NovelEndings: A Novel is a first novel by Barbara Bergin, an orthopedic surgeon living in Austin, Texas with her husband and two children. Bergin and her husband own a ranch and she competes and has ranked nationally in the reined cow horse performance sport.

Bergin writes about what she knows, orthopedic surgery, ranching, and competition horse events. While she might go into too much detail at times, particularly during surgery, it doesn’t detract from the writing or the storyline. I enjoyed reading this book… I think.

I was expecting a different ending. I read the ending the first time and went back to read it again because I wasn’t sure I’d understood what had happened to all the characters. After a second reading I decided to read the last chapter a third time just to make sure I’d interpreted the chain of events correctly. I’m not so sure that the ending was the right one for the story but it’s the ending the author chose and it’s her story to end in any manner she chooses.

You Can’t Have Him - He’s Mine

You Can’t Have Him - He’s Mine: A Woman’s Guide to Affair-Proofing Her Relationship, written by Marie H. Browne, R.N. Ph.D., with Marlene M. Browne, Esq., is a survival guide for women dealing with cheating spouses. Whether you’re ready to kick him to the curb or fighting to keep him, take the time to read this book before making any major decisions or confronting him or his cheatmate. If you’re the betrayed wife, you actually probably have the upper hand; learn how to use it to your advantage. This isn’t a fun read but neither is adultery.

Mademoiselle Victorine

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Mademoiselle Victorine: A Novel, written by Debra Finerman, is a fictionalized accounting of historical events in 1860s Paris. Victorine, the lead character, is less than a courtesan but more than a streetwalker. She uses her physical beauty and sexual skills to work her way through the upper levels of Parisian society in her quest for rich men, married or not. I couldn’t find anything to like about such a self-absorbed and shallow character, but I thoroughly enjoyed Finerman’s depth of detail throughout the book. I felt that if I closed my eyes I would actually be in that period of time.

Daisy Dooley Does Divorce

Daisy Dooley Does Divorce is a chick-lit novel by Anna Pasternak. Daisy Dooley is 39 and divorced after leaving a three year marriage, her first. Now, as her biological clock ticks madly away, she’s back living at home with her ditzy mother who raises dachsunds and taking another plunge into the dating pool. Daisy is British which means “shag” is not a hairstyle nor is “sod” something that covers the front lawn.

The Man I Should Have Married

After Sunny’s middle-aged husband ends their marriage by running off with an old high school sweetheart, Sunny wonders if there’s anyone from her past who would have the same effect on her. Author Pamela Redmond Satran’s book The Man I Should Have Married begins with a divorce and ends with a marriage. The middle of the book tells how it all happened. Read more… »

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